How to Tell if Your Dog Wants Pets This Holiday Season
Kris Hampton, CTC, CPDT-KA & Leslie Sanchez
As the holidays approach and love and cheer fill our homes, it’s important to tune in to your dog’s cues and body language. Knowing what your pup is trying to tell you can make the season even cozier and more joyful for everyone. Here we share common behaviours and their meaning.
Tip 1: Signs That Mean ‘I Want Pets’
Dogs have many ways to ask for love and affection, often in the cutest and funniest ways. Look out for behaviours like:
Relaxed posture, soft eyes, and gentle tail wags
Nose nudges, or little paw taps
Full-body and playful wiggles of tail and hips
Hand-kisses or gentle nudges into your hands
Backwards sits or leaning into you for extra contact
These gestures are their way of saying. ‘I’d love some love right now!’ 🩷
Tip 2: Signs That Mean ‘I Don’t Want Pets’
Just like people, dogs sometimes need space. Pay attention to:
Moving away or turning their body from you
Lip licking, yawning, or picking up a paw (signs of stress)
Tense body posture or tail tucked away
Respecting these signals keeps interactions safe, and helps your dog feel comfortable and loved.
This Month’s Thought:
Holiday Reminder - Every Pup is Unique
Remember: Every pup has their quirks! Some may have their own special ways of asking for pets or signaling that they need space. During the holiday season, especially with visits, parties, and extra excitement, being mindful of your dog’s cues keeps the party happy and stress-free.
Want to practice reading your puppy’s cues in a fun, safe space? Join us at our Puppy Socials!
